disgusted when they come. Most of it is up to you and
 
 your doctor and therapist. I'm just telling you what
 
 I've seen over the years. what I know."
 
 "Why do you want to do this kind of work? It
 
 seems so hard," I said as she helped me get out of the
 
 chair and into the tub.
 
 "Pay's good." she said. "Besides," she continued
 
 as I began to enjoy the soak. "I had early experience at it. My father was crippled early with arthritis and in a
 
 wheelchair and my mother was..."
 
 "What?" I asked when she hesitated.
 
 She looked down at me.
 
 "No damn good," she said and left me to bathe. She took so long to return. I wondered if she
 
 expected I would get myself out and dried and in the
 
 chair. I've got to get to where I can anyway, I thought
 
 and started to do just that.
 
 "Just hold on there. Miss Impatience," she said
 
 charging back into the bathroom. "You're not ready
 
 for that yet and if you go and fall and break something
 
 else, guess who's going to be blamed?"
 
 She was efficient about ge
 
 tting me out, dry and
 
 dressed. She opened the closet and asked me what I
 
 wanted to wear.
 
 "Don't forget," she reminded me. "the physical
 
 therapist will be here this morning."
 
 I chose a sweat suit outfit. After I put it on, she
 
 stepped back and looked at me.
 
 "You going to just leave your hair a mess after
 
 we worked so hard getting you clean and smelling
 
 good? Run a brush through it at least," she told me.