Page 7 of Orgasmic Dirty Talk

Don’t Forget:

Your Delivery, Voice Tone, and Intention(s) Hold More Value To Her Than Your Actual Words

Calibration Signals: The Short Version

You have verbal and nonverbal signals of hers to look out for:

? Sounds (moans, groans, murmurs, etc.)

? Vocal insinuations (she stresses/places emphasis on certain words or phrases)

? Body language (pronounced body arching, muscle tension, grabbing/clawing you, etc.)

? Vocal tone

? Absence of sou

nds/verbal communication

? Lack of “positive” body language

? Hesitation

? Topic avoidance (E.g. her not answering your dirty talk questions)

? Changing the subject

Pay attention to her responses to:

? Certain Phrases

? Certain Words

? Different Levels of Explicitness

? Dirty Names

If she moans louder, smiles, nods, or eagerly does what she is told, or sends you a filthy text message/email then your dirty talk is effective for her. Reluctant replies, topic changes, unenthusiastic, or perplexed looks means you are on the wrong track and need to calibrate. Try something different, or tone it down. NEVER push her beyond what is enjoyable to her or you will cause her to associate negative sexual emotions with you. You will then wonder why the sex has tapered off.

Here are the things you should be looking for…

Calibration Signals: The Long Version

Verbal Signals

1] She Mentions Her Likes/ Dislikes

This one is self-evident.

2] Pacing and Leading Her Language Cues

Pace her language and pace her language/voice patterns. If she’s talking slow and sensual or very filthy, follow suit and then lead her into the voice tempo or type of dirty talk you want.

Listen to the language and certain phrases/words she uses and then match the tone/enthusiasm of your voice to hers. If she calls herself your “dirty little cum slut” you can be sure that she won’t mind you calling her that. A lot of times, she will go along with whatever you say if she can feel your confidence through your language. Gather tiny clues from her and use them to massage her mind with your words.

NOTE: she may not voice her dirtier language unless you do (she is following your lead), so pace her language only for a bit and then just lead her into the direction you want while taking her attitude/happiness into account.

3] Groans, grunts, moans, and murmurs

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