“Holy fuck!”
My mouth’s watering with the thought that she’s a virgin. I wonder what she looks like!
Cool. Not a problem. As long as you’re of age and have an inkling about what kinds of answers you’ll be getting from me, I’m good with answering your questions. So, shoot me one.
An entire minute goes by before anything appears.Is there a private area we can do this, sir?
I think about it for a moment, then decide to give her my personal touch.Do you have a Skype account?
I do. I prefer not to video conference though, if you don’t mine.’
“Hmm, must be an ugly duckling. That’s most likely why she’s still a virgin.”
I type in,Not to worry, I won’t try to video chat with you. My number is 999-987-0099. I’ll be waiting for your message, Jade.
In no time at all, she’s messaged me, and a little ding comes from my phone. I pull it up on my computer to make typing easier and find even her profile picture on the site is nothing but a red rose. I find it funny, as my picture is a black rose with thorns on it.
Hi, Pierce. Do you mind if I call you that? I don’t want to establish a submissive relationship with you and just realized that by calling yousir, I am doing just that.
I chuckle as I write back,You may call me that. So, what’s your first question?
Much too quickly she sends back,Do you like to hit women?
Not happy with the question, I fire back,If this is some hater who wishes to berate me for what I am and enjoy doing, then you can go to hell!
Another quick response comes from her,No! Sorry. Please don’t take any of my questions in an offensive manner. None of them are meant to offend you. All are meant merely to learn about this lifestyle. Nothing more than that. I simply want to know if you took up this practice because you had a fetish about hitting people or women in general.
Letting my anger subside, I give it a minute to settle. She’s just curious. I have to remember she’s young and naïve.
This is not a thing I started because of a need to hit anyone. I was having difficulty at work. I needed an outlet. I was introduced to this world. I joined this club and found that submissives wanted certain things done to them. I took classes and learned how to give them what they asked for. And I became good at it. You see, some people like pain, Jade. Some people crave it. I administer the thing they feel they need. I do it with them in mind. Not for myself.
Three minutes tick by before she sends me another question.Do you have an exclusive relationship with your sub?
I don’t. I never have.
Do you have a commitment phobia? Or anything in your past that caused you to enjoy this lifestyle?
Weighing the question so I can answer truthfully, I finally type,Perhaps I do have a commitment issue. I wouldn’t call it a phobia. And nothing is in my past that’s messed up my mind, contrary to what a lot of people think about us.
How old are you?she asks.
35.
Again, some time goes by before she writes anything else. Then the words appear on the screen.I’d like to be clear on what type of Dom I’m talking to. Are you a heterosexual, Pierce?
I am. Are you?
Yes. I only ask as I want to write M/F romances and spending time talking to a man who likes men would do me no good. Do Doms only dole out punishments? And if not, have you received any?
One can play both ends of the spectrum if they want to. There are no rules stating that once a sub always a sub or once a Dom always a Dom. When I was in training, I was hit by my trainer. That way I would know what it felt like to be hit with the items I was taught to use. But no sub has ever hit me. Nor do I plan on that ever happening. I rule.
The pause she takes is so long, I begin to wonder if she’s decided to stop our interview. Then I see her next question.
Are you the type who wants to rule everything? And if so, why do you not have an exclusive sub?
Her question has me pondering it. Do I want to rule everything? I have no idea. I’ve never done that. The two live-in girlfriends I had certainly needed a firmer hand than I had back then. If I found a woman that I wanted to keep around, I think I’d like to make the rules.
With my answer, I type,Your question is a first for me. I looked deep inside myself and found I would like to rule if I ever found a sub I wanted to keep with me for any length of time. I prefer things certain ways and would train a sub to do things the way I like them done.