Page 8 of In Plain Sight

Sinbin: really? That’s not a giant red flag?

MrNiceGuy: definitely not

Sinbin: I’m less nervous now

MrNiceGuy: that’s good

MrNiceGuy: I have a few questions before we start anything. is it okay if I ask them now?

Sinbin: yeah go for it

MrNiceGuy: what are you looking for tonight?

Sinbin: I thought this was going to be a JOI…

MrNiceGuy: it will be. I just need some details to make sure it’s what we’re both looking for. Do you want to chat for a bit first and get comfortable?

Sinbin: yeah that would be great. thanks

MrNiceGuy: when we do start, do you have any limits?

Sinbin: limits?

MrNiceGuy: things you don’t want to do or things you don’t want me to say

Sinbin: um…

MrNiceGuy: do you have any trigger words?

I bit my lip, my thumbs hovering over my screen. I had no idea what he was talking about.

I didn’t even go to a restaurant without looking up the menu and checking out the parking situation first, but I’d logged in to a kink app without doing any sort of research? Either I was hornier than I thought, or I was so far out of my element I was about to make a fool out of myself. I was going with the latter option.

Sinbin: I don’t know what those are

MrNiceGuy: words you don’t want to hear. Anything that has a negative connotation or would turn you off

Sinbin: not that I can think of

MrNiceGuy: what about actions? Is there anything you don’t want to do? Anything you don’t enjoy?

Sinbin: nothing comes to mind right now

Sinbin: sorry I’m messing up

MrNiceGuy: you’re not. And you never need to apologize for not knowing or understanding something. This kind of thing only works if we’re both on the same page

Sinbin: I almost apologized again

MrNiceGuy: lol

Sinbin: you’ve done this a lot?

MrNiceGuy: depends on what your definition of a lot is

MrNiceGuy: I’ve had a profile on here for years but I don’t log in often

Sinbin: no?

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