Claude

Okay, so I don’t usually talk about anything sexual or kinky with anyone, but I was actually comfortable with you, and when I’m comfortable I start getting more curious, so…

When you said you’re turned on by BDSM stuff, what does that look like for you?

Arlene

Huh?

What do you mean?

Claude

So for example, I can get aroused, but I don’t like touching myself or being touched. Too much dysphoria.

But I know that’s just me and other trans people experience things differently, and have different relationships to their bodies, and it’s kind of fascinating to me?

Arlene

Oh

We’re going there, then?

Claude

I mean, obviously not if it makes you uncomfortable

Sorry

Some people say I’m too forward

I don’t always read the room

We can just ignore this conversation and you can explain something baking to me

Arlene

No, it’s fine!

I actually don’t have many trans friends, so I’m… rusty, is all

I’m non-op. I like bottoming, and muffing, and having my clit played with like one would a cis woman’s clit

Does that make sense?

Claude

Yeah

I’ve heard of muffing, but I’ve never seen it

WHICH IS NOT A COME ON

Sorry

I just meant, I’m not completely clueless, but I kind of am, too

Arlene