Page 8 of Love Off Script

“I guess I hoped she could give you confidence. You’re a catch, cuz. And I hate to see you pining after someone who doesn’t even know you exist. If you got on Caz’s show, people would see you for once, and you’d stop blending into the background.” She took out her phone and snapped a picture of me.

“What are you doing?” My luck, she would use that to create a dating profile or something.

“I’m making my point clear.” She showed me her phone, and I appeared to be a head without a body as my shirt matched the wall perfectly.

“Knock it off. Gray is a trendy color.”

“It’s forgettable. And that’s all you wear. Therefore, it makes you forgettable.” She pocketed her phone, and I studied her outfit.

She was in a pink baby-T with black sweats, tan Uggs, and sunglasses on top of her head. She wasn’t my go-to for fashion, but I loved how she owned her look. She never tried to fit a mold, which I admired. Being the only girl in her family, her parents thought she would be this feminine beauty queen, but that wasn’t the case. She marched to the beat of her own drum and didn’t apologize for it.

I wished I could do that, but my self-consciousness and need to please others left me behind a wall of insecurity. I felt it was better to hide my needs and focus on other people because then I couldn’t get hurt. If I didn’t voice my thoughts, then I couldn’t get upset if someone didn’t do what I expected. If they didn’t know, then their inattention was my fault and not theirs. Sure, the math didn’t always math, but mostly, it kept me safe.

“It's fine with me if I'm not remembered. I don’t need to be the center of attention.” I gave her a pointed stare, and she shrugged.

“Who says that’s what I want? I can’t help that I catch people’s eye.” She was right, though.

People would take notice of her no matter what she was wearing. Her confidence commanded the room.

“Regardless, please back off and let me figure out my own dating life.”

“Shy, you deserve to be happy. It gets hard watching you each Saturday afternoon listen to Devon and me talk about our love lives. I want you to get to join in on the fun.”

I wanted to be angry, but she probably believed what she was feeling—I needed to be with someone to be happy. That wasn’t true. Of course, I would like to share my life with someone who gave me butterflies but also calmed me down—someone who loved me for who I was and not what I could do for them. But my fear of rejection was so much greater than my need for acceptance that I found contentment in my comfort zone, which didn’t include putting myself out there. There was safety in staying in my bubble, which was worth more than the possibilities outside of it.

“Where is this coming from? Do you think I don’t have fun with you?” Sonya and I had contrasting personalities, but ultimately, I knew she loved me and had my back.

“Do you? Because sometimes you sit with us and never even crack a smile. If I’m honest, I feel judged.”

I had to hide my shocked expression. That seemed off base, but I wouldn’t invalidate her feelings.

“I’m sorry I’ve made you feel that way, but I would never judge you. If I’m quiet, it’s just because I’m listening.” That might have been a half-truth.

If I recalled all my interactions with her, I might have formulated opinions about her decisions, but I never said them out loud. Did that make me a liar?

“It’s fine. I probably do need to be smacked upside the head from time to time. But I’d rather live the life I want than worry about what others think—it’s freeing. And I want that for you.” She was adamant that I needed to change, but change was scary, and I didn’t want to do it.

“Thanks. But can we drop this? I’m good where I’m at.” I let out a weighted breath because the more she talked, the less I believed the lies I was telling myself.

“I’ll let it go.”

“Thank—”

She cut in before I could finish my sentiment. “If… you meet with Caz. Even just once. Let’s see what she has to offer, and then you can decide how to handle things.” That wasn’t unreasonable, and it would be worth it if it got her off my back.

“Fine. But only one time, right?” There was no way I was signing up for anything else.

“Yes.” She held her hand out for me to shake, and I was glad this inquisition was over without any further reference to why I was here.

“I’m meeting Devon for lunch. You want to come?” Sonya stood, waiting for my reply.

I peeked toward the counter and realized Ember was gone. She could have been on break, or maybe she was off for the day. Either way, I hated that I missed her and wished I could have said goodbye—at least in my head.

She turned in the direction of my gaze and sighed. “Coffee chick will be here next week. Let’s go.”

“I don’t know what you’re talking about.” I slid out of my seat, trying to be nonchalant. But despite my efforts, I could feel my face betraying me with a flicker of emotion in response to her accusation.

“Right. Of course not.” She put a finger to her lips, like she was keeping a secret that everyone knew.

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